Decluttering Fear: It Might Be Worth Something Someday

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One of the biggest battles people face when it involves letting go of an merchandise (or buying an item) is that deep held perception that it might be worth one factor someday. Not solely do we have a tendency to this factor the place we over-value our belongings simply because they’re ours, however we additionally have a tendency to forget to recollect what our personal definition of valuable is. If you struggle to shake free from that fear that you could be lacking out on a potentially huge monetary gain, hopefully this little story about my Spice Girls dolls can shed some light on the subject.

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They’ll be worth something…

When I was in sixth and seventh grade, I was wildly obsessive about the Spice Girls. So a lot so as that I had a closet filled with platform shoes. To be clear, nobody else in my friend group, or my entire school for that matter, was rocking this same style of shoes. I was on a solo mission to bring as a lot Girl Power to Junior High as possible.

Knowing this, you can think about how psyched I was to learn that they were releasing Spice Girls Barbies!

With a little patience and a lot of schmoozing my parents and grandparents, I had the entire assortment of Spice Girls in no time. Make no mistake, even although I had entered Junior High, wore platforms every day, and had a cup size bigger than most of my teachers, I was most definitely nonetheless a child at heart.

My grandma’s basement was filled with my dolls, Barbies, and different fantastic instruments of make believe. The better half was, I used every and every toy to its absolute fullest potential.

This is a half of the reason why I allow my kids to enjoy their expertise with stuff rather than limiting their toys. I don’t buy them the toys they request past birthday and Christmas (sometimes not even then), however I have merely allowed them to enjoy what they select to enjoy and let go when they select to let go. Our unfinished basement is filled with dollhouses, dolls, and dress ups and they’re getting used up, loved on, and thoroughly performed with. It’s awesome.

That’s why, upon the acquisition of these Spice Girl Barbies, I couldn’t fathom why my parents would say to me one of many most painfully ignorant issues I had ever heard.

“Keep them within the box. They’ll be worth one factor someday.”

Getting my Spice Girls’ worth

I tried to oblige my parent’s request for all of 6 seconds. Did they really expect me to simply plop these issues on a shelf and stare at them till I was 40? As if!

Last I checked dolls were toys and toys were meant to be performed with, to not be saved in boxes in hopes of some potential future payout.

At the time, most of the items that accumulated in my mom’s home were going to be “worth one factor someday,” and whereas I was tremendous jealous of how a lot cash she was going to financial institution on her Princess Diana beanie baby, eleven year old me merely didn’t care.

My solely mission on the age of eleven was to completely bask within the enjoyment of model new toys.

Every day I would set my Spice Girls up on stage, pose them, brush their hair, and when I was feeling extra spicy, I would even swap their garments and shoes! I took pictures of them, and made movies of them dancing whereas their songs echoed within the background of my shotty camera work.

I performed with them a lot their hair matted, equipment got lost, and when I reached no matter age I was when playing with dolls lastly misplaced its appeal, these girls had seen it all. They had carried out on stages throughout the world, labored out the fights the actual Spice Girls couldn’t work out, and skilled what it was like to put on one another’s shoes. (Get it?)

Today I determined to check on eBay to see how a lot these Spice Girls are “worth” these days. They are listed between the costs of $70 and $200 – for all 5 in mint condition.

Now, contemplating that a few of them are sporting their KMart price ticket for $12.99 this implies that model new all of them cost a grand total of $65. Let’s say, best case scenario, I was able to hold onto them and get them for the utmost quantity of $200, which appears unlikely.

This would have meant I would have wanted to:

  • Not play with these dolls as a kid
  • Spend cautious effort and time to maintain their boxes
  • Store them and transfer them the 9 times I moved since buying them
  • Set up an eBay account
  • Take the time to take photos, write descriptions and list them
  • Continue to retailer them in mint situation till they sold
  • Bring them to get shipped as soon as they sell

Call me crazy, however the time (literally years), and energy put into carting these dolls round with me for 15 years so as to make $130 doesn’t appear worth it.

Little me, little eleven year old me and 36 year old me are in full settlement that these dolls served their purpose, and we’re OK with skipping out on $130 if it meant 130 hours of pure, Girl Power playtime.

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The cost of $130

I inform you this story to illustrate a level about worth and the way we often understand it wrong. So often in our world, the one focus placed on worth is that of monetary gain, however our time on this earth is worth a lot greater than that.

Some people might hear that and go, “Yes, our time is worth greater than that, however it’s nonetheless money!” Oftentimes, these are additionally the individuals who discover themselves skipping out on issues like investing, and making passive income. These are issues that may simply earn you $130 each day with out having to do completely something – not to mention cart round some pop star dolls from the 90’s.

If I had proudly displayed these dolls in every home I have lived in since I was 11. If they had introduced me straight up pleasure for 15 years after which one day I determined I was prepared to half with them, listed them on my already arrange eBay account, after which shipped them out with little effort, then maybe $130 would really feel a little extra like a perk rather than a giant time suck, however that wasn’t the case for me. Read: An Unused Item is Already Garbage

What is worth to you?

So many times people accumulate things, or struggle to let go of them due to this myth of potential monetary worth. Chances are you know someone, or even are somebody who has fed into this belief. If so, can I make one other daring statement?

It’s not solely one factor that has been carted round for years since it might be worth something.

The people I have come throughout in my life who carry the perception of, “It might be worth one factor someday” often spend cash frequently on issues that offer a possible payout, retailer these items of their home including to the clutter, and by no means ever promote them. If they do promote them, they may solely get their cash back, or even earn a slight profit.

However, if the cash spent within the buildup of all of these potential investments was missed all through the years, or added to monetary hardship, was it worth it?

If these items added to the clutter within the home which will increase stress and decreased space for household gatherings, was it worth it?

Was the time spent finding, purchasing, storing, sustaining and promoting this merchandise worth it?

That’s as a lot as every of us to decide.

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Choosing your worth

Today, ask your self the subsequent questions:

  • What does worth imply to me?
  • What are the issues I worth most in my life?
  • Does my home and lifestyle reflect this?
  • Have I been tricked into believing my worth or values lie elsewhere?

At the finish of the day, we every get to decide what worth means to us, the place our values lie, after which we have to get honest with ourselves about what areas of our life merely don’t measure up. This goes for factor like clutter that might be “worth” one factor someday, however can additionally extend a lot additional than that.

Investing in sure things

OK, so that you might understand that there are bigger issues in life than cash and monetary gain, right? Cool. Me too.

However, that doesn’t imply that we don’t want cash to live or that none of us actually enjoy getting extra money, of course we do!

What I’m suggesting is that we cease placing our potential profits into total gambles, like toy collectibles, and instead entrust our monetary decisions to confirmed monetary payoffs like high-yield savings, investing, and making passive income.

Below I’m going to share with you a few of my favourite weblog posts about how to get began simply in all of these areas:

  • Savings Accounts That Pay Out Like Crazy
  • 3 Ways to Invest with Only $100
  • 5 Ways to Make Passive Income in 2023

All of these are strategies and strategies I have used and utilized to my very personal life that proceed to pay out every day versus hanging on to a bunch of stuff that hopefully, fingers-crossed, might earn me $100 20 years from now.

Living with what pays off proper now

After going through your list and figuring out what you discover valuable and worthy in your life, how are you able to start to love-on these issues and put your energy and time towards them beginning proper now?

What in your home is serving you immensely proper now?

Who or what do you have in your life that provides worth every day? Are you able to place your focus and consideration in these areas?

Whether or not you are somebody who has been hanging onto stuff for a possible future payout, taking the time to shift our focus towards what truly issues to us in life is one factor we can all profit from.

If you do occur to be somebody who has a big pile of, “Stuff that might be worth something,” I would love it if you would ask your self if what that stuff might be worth actually lines up with your idea of what worth truly means.

The subsequent time you finish up getting swept up within the rush to buy one factor since it might be a possible collectible or “worth something” someday. Remind your self that you have made the choice to solely spend cash on the issues that are truly worth your cash and give you a payout that’s aligned with your values and the way you want to present up for your life.

Declutter prompt 

I’m sure you know the place I’m headed with this week’s declutter prompt.

If you have something in your home that you retain placing off decluttering since you think it might offer some monetary payout within the future, might I encourage you to do one of two things.

  • Simply donate this item(s)
  • List it already

You can attempt to promote these issues for what they might be worth if you can’t fully decide to simply donating, however, I would nonetheless encourage you to give your self a promoting deadline.

If in 2 weeks that merchandise is nonetheless sitting round collecting mud and taking up space, un-list it and donate it.

The letting go course of of issues like these can be extra difficult because we have led ourselves to believe that we will gain one factor from it or get one factor back. The actuality is that this rarely, if ever occurs and the one factor we usually ever cost ourselves is the peace that comes from parting ways.

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